If you exchange gifts with someone in person, speak up and thank them right then, even if you plan to follow up with a written thank you message. If they ship you a gift or have someone else ...

My husband believes that when we receive an indivisible gift, both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages.

would prefer that we send a single message, using “we” in the note with one person writing and each individual signing.

I am rejoicing and overwhelmed by your joyous wishes and the surprise gift. You all make me feel like a kid again. Thank you, everyone. Thank you dear colleagues for all your wishes and messages ...

My husband believes that when we receive a single, indivisible gift intended for us as a couple (such as a platter, ...