Stuck on what to say? Here’s what to write in a birthday card for a friend, coworker or that special someone in your life.

Dear Still in Grief: I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter. You’ve been through something awful and there’s no timetable for how you navigate this period after. And that includes thank-you notes.

Looking for the right words to express your gratitude? Take some inspiration from these suggestions to make the thank you as touching as the gift itself.