In today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane hears from a reader who wants to help their friend but worries she will just cut off contact.

"It can be an awkward moment, but I say that we have many blessings and enjoy life with all of our family and friends." ...

Giving genuine thanks for an unexpected gift shows the giver that you truly recognize and appreciate their thoughtful gesture ...

I don’t want to abandon her, but sometimes I wonder if she really cares about me or if she just wants someone to listen to ...