The friend criticized our life choices, looking down on us. My husband and I were both in the car when I read it aloud.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am part of a group of six college friends from 50 years ago. We stay in touch by texting often, and ...

If there remains the possibility that your friend is unaware of what happened, you might confide to one of the other group ...

In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to receiving a hurtful text from friend of 50 years.